The girlfriend of the man shot to death in the 10700 block fo Stark Sunday night told police that the victim had assaulted her the day before causing her to seek medical treatment, according to court documents.
The woman told police that she returned to the home at 10718 Stark to get her personal belongings, but the victim, 42-year-old Anthony Melson, had blocked the door with a couch and wouldn't let her into the home. A relative of the woman and 38-year-old Kris L. Ruff stood on the home's front porch and were arguing with Melson when Ruff began firing shots from a handgun into the home. Everyone fled.
Ruff surrendered to police Tuesday but refused to make a statement.
Jackson County prosecutors charged Ruff today with second-degree murder and armed criminal action.
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i dont do internet beef, my name is out there but yours not. . . . so bitchness must run in the family!!! U just a joke! Lance Fat ass, what? it's coo i hear in suckin dick in jail anyway
these two niggers are completely worthless. At least one on them isn't wasting our time and money any more. As for "Fuck wat u talkin" above, this dumb ass nigger needs to kill herself!
bitch dont talk to her like that , and hoe obviously u'r not too familiar with how the court system works or how murders happen period, bitch everybody that kills doesnt do it intentionally and all tho u mad about the murder u dnt have to forgive nobody but dont continue to thro dirt on this man and this family like u fuckin kno it alll bitchassnigga u dont know none of them from a can of paint pussy so stfu or u'll be falllin further than u want !
do that for wat jus to show your sobbing faces lol dgaf. u can pull up but not dare to pull off lame asses !
awwwwwh stfu fat ass , the coward is u bitch if u hada problem u know where we reside n thas on MR.Melson bitch if u wanted it that bad why have we yet to meet ?lol stupid cunt,, and for her gettin her ass beat u's a pussy for maken that statement n he's a bitchassnigga for puttin his hands on a female in the first place i could give a fuck dead or alive he's a pussy for doin that but that had nothin to do with kris he shoulda let the bitch do wat she do and never got involved but shit fuck it , it happen, cant do shit about it but ask for forgiveness death should never be wished upon anyone but if anybody should have ben taken out it shoulda been the girlfriend
lol shoot yourslf . false lies will never win ! bitch why would he sleep wit his cousin wat sick type of shit u on ... u dont know a shit of wat u talkin so pls go die !
lol the "fact" that u call him MR. Ruff clearly sums up the fact that u dont know him personally so all your opions pls shuv it up yo pussy !
thank god somebody got they head screwed on instead of chewed off like these other nonsense talkin ass ppl talkin like this nigga was jus an angel wit a fuckin halo riden shot gun on his head lmao wake up n smell the coffee rather he was killed or not he did bad n carmas a bitch!
oh my bad u was there and u was inside they mind and knew if they planned it or it was an accident my bad ! lmao dumbass bitch u wasnt there and u not them so bite yo fuckin tongue off and shutdafuck up please n thanks bfor i rip da bitch out rite from under you !
okay bitch sorry has been said a million times and duh bitch everybody KNOWS HOW PERMANENT DEATH IS but nomatter how much bulllshit u gotta say about it or how much hate u got for the situation he willl never be back soo...... learn to get over it , death is certain for everybody !
KRIS'S DAUGHTER
accidental murder: You only bring a gun a cross town too use it.... I am sure your not a DUM ASS...... but than again my bad.... ..... the apple does not fall far from the tree.....
when is the trial ? and if its taken place what was the outcome. thank you
I forgive Kris for what has happened. I was there throughout the entire trails. I was there friday when he (Kris)got sentence. I want My brother to Rest in the lords hands and for both families to learn from this.
lOl . funny how errybody on here talkin bad bud obviously don kno a damn thing about our family ha say whtchu want i kno myi daddy aint no killer that nigga was puttin his hands on my cousin which was WRONG point blank BITCHES n true she should have called the police which thats on her DUMMIES nd duhhh he was wrong to shoot but he didnt go over there to kill that mann true story so im not worried about it too much lol u grown ass mufuccas on here still on this bullllshit article how old are yawh! GROW UP lol n like i said i aint worried about it too much cuz my dad made a mistake n the judge will see lol so i give it about 5years at the most cuz from gods eyes im sure its man slaughter, u cant see it no differently i dont want to hear it anymore it was an accidental murder so.. whos not worried about it is me cuz my daddy will see life again n when he does he'll be thankful n he'll be greeted with open arms cuz regardless to wht any of you OUTSIDERS is on here sayin he still got a life to live nd of course a family n kids who love him lol he's a great person so worry about u haters for what? thas my daddy and i love him still to this day sorry for yaw lost but fucck wht u thought god will deal with it !
signed ,,
lANAE
lOl . funny how errybody on here talkin bad bud obviously don kno a damn thing about our family ha say whtchu want i kno myi daddy aint no killer that nigga was puttin his hands on my cousin which was WRONG point blank BITCHES n true she should have called the police which thats on her DUMMIES nd duhhh he was wrong to shoot but he didnt go over there to kill that mann true story so im not worried about it too much lol u grown ass mufuccas on here still on this bullllshit article how old are yawh! GROW UP lol n like i said i aint worried about it too much cuz my dad made a mistake n the judge will see lol so i give it about 5years at the most cuz from gods eyes im sure its man slaughter, u cant see it no differently i dont want to hear it anymore it was an accidental murder so.. whos not worried about it is me cuz my daddy will see life again n when he does he'll be thankful n he'll be greeted with open arms cuz regardless to wht any of you OUTSIDERS is on here sayin he still got a life to live nd of course a family n kids who love him lol he's a great person so worry about u haters for what? thas my daddy and i love him still to this day sorry for yaw lost but fucck wht u thought god will deal with it !
signed ,,
Our goal as the Children of Anthony Melson and his family is to ask others please take time out of your day and petition the Missouri City Council, Missouri Legislators, the Missouri Governor, and the Attorney General of Kansas city Missouri is to give both Kris and Vanessa and others who may have been involved with the murder and armed criminal action; that has left our family victims to this horrific crime. By requesting these actions can help us with a few small Simple actions; that can take place on your PC. Let�s team up and make sure that people like Kris and Vanessa (and others) can never take another life. Let�s end all the talk over who is sorry and who was there and was not there let�s move mountains by putting Kris and Vanessa in jail for very long time!
Is there a trial date for Kris and Vanessa? Why don't all of us just show up so at the trial.
All for 1 and 1 for All much love for the Melson Family. We will always always love and be there for each other. ANTHONY MELSON is lives in our heart.
Let my uncle rest in peace. There is no love on this page only hate. Hate in the hearts of people that do not know the real story. If you did you would eats the words written. It�s good that some Ruffin family members know God. Good for you. If you know and love him (God) then tell your family and other friends to stop with the hurtful posts. Our family has been hurt enough and the anger, lies, assumptions and total disrespect are not helping. These types of responses bring people back to a place that is ominous. I prefer to recall the good memories we have with Anthony (not Ant). Please don�t insult the life of our loved one with malice with how much he is loved or missed by anyone other than his TRUE family and friends. Your family member took the life of our family member and left an emptiness that cannot be filled. He didn�t mean to do it��well he can tell it to the judge. You carry a gun to someone else�s house and brutally take them from this world and then run. Well to God be the Glory�.because one person may be in jail but vengeance is the Lords and we all have to answer for our sins. And the people responsible for this are not EXEMPT. I�m not going to say I will pray for the Ruffin family for Lord knows I would be lying but I will continue to pray our family and those of us who struggle on a daily basis with the absence of our loved one. I�m asking you all to stop the posts out of respect for the parties affected. The back and forth is not going to rationalize what happened or make anyone feel better, thus quit while you are ahead.
May Gods, Love, Grace, Peace and Mercy cover my family ALWAYS!!!
AMEN
Not affraid to leave my name (LANCE E. MELSON)... Come get me if it's like that... My uncle would have through them hands with dude. Thats a fact.. i saw the murder seen, Kris (coward) Ruff, shot him through a window.. that ain't gangster.. My uncle should have cut Vanessa water off long time ago. He knew she wasn't right & very dumb on his part for trying to turn nothin into somethin.. We miss u so much.. i dont care about her gettin that ass whipped, don"t know wht happen to set it off dont really care... Someone every important was takin from me n a coward way... (FACT) But MELSON & Ruff family ain't nothing we can do but LET GO & LET GOD...
They are frist cousin you butt hole they have never had sex and never will what kind of family do you have to think some stuff like that and the name calling not once where you called out of your name so let's not do the name calling because it can get worst than being called a butt hole but i just don't like alot of drummer going on they have never had sex and never will please stop talking about something you don't know nither one of them is on here to defend there own battle so stop the madness
Who use to hit that i know you are not talking about Kris and Vanessa they are cousin and I do mean Blood Cousin i know i been around the family along time so get that stuff out your head thyat is some sick stuff to say about that men we they are Family Don't put abnything like that on there again unless you put who you are to say so Bull like that know you making me mad that is white folks stuff to sleep with family not the Ruff Family.
have to say ,some of u people r really fuckin stupid..2 think he went over there just 2 help her get property your crazy !!!!! he use to sleep with the girl back in tha day. ( sorry ke,ke ) went to prove that he coold still hit it when he wanted 2 >
Sis N Law
There are some evil people in this world and like the other person said Black Folks (men that is ) doing what the white man want and it aint even worth it. Kris is not a criminal nor bad man out to hurt anybody, he is a loving father, husband, son, brother, uncle and god Help Good Friend. He I know is sorry for what happened and can not change that and if he could I'm sure he would so stop the ignorant remarks and just let the Judge decide what to do about the Issue.
Missing you lots, sis n law & kids!!!!!!!!
a course they was going to say a group of mens why would they say her when they know that she live there so they proble thoutgh she was taking aginst her will be i know she had to be becaus who would just go to someone house without being ask by a party that live there Mr.Ruff is not that type of person i know that for a fact so again we where njot there and the truth will come one way or another so please let just wait to see what happen. until we talk again go get the police report read it and then get back at me only the Good Lord know's and the one's that was there i would like to know what police report say we all are just assuming what we think happen so once you find some fact's let me know what's up I would like to know word to word what's in there are you even sure that Mr. Ruff did it are is he taking the blam for someone else i look up some info on Mr. Ruff and there was nothing on his record that shows he been in any kind of trouble so this make you think did he really do this are just covering up for that other person make you really really think about the issue hummmmmm.
Neighbors Say Group of Men Seen Leaving KC Murder Scene; Not one person stated they saw Vanessa at the scene.
I can not state what type of mother Vanessa is; but I do know she has acted a raw fool in front of my family and children more then once to the point she was asked by the police not to come in the present of my children every again.
Vanessa knew that Anthony was a married man with children.
When your a girlfriend or lover of a married man; nothing good comes out of life when your trying to walk in the shoes of a married mans wife.
The fact still remains that Vanessa was not seen at the house when Mr. Ruff shot Mr. Melson.
Vanessa may have went to the hopsital for abuse; but the fact still remains she was sent home the same day that she went to seek help for teh abuse.
Vanessa and Mr. Melson fought all the time.
Mr. Ruff is on the hook for jail time but Vanessa will be questioned for Foul Play and setup.
yeah we don't know what cause this to happen just like evryone say only the people that was there know's what happen and the truth will come out and that way this blog stuff can stop because wasn't none of us was there and Anthony is not what you say he was craked up to be because a really men would walk away from a fight with his women not send her to a hospital from trying to beat the mess out of her so there is no good guy are bad at this point in time so let please stop acting like this is a one men battle there is story to be told so just wait until it happen. Thank you. stop this voloent this is what the white man want to see.
The Ruff family stated "we love Anthony as if he was one of are own family" WOW so to be in the family you have be murder?
Funny how the family knew they were all going over Mr. Melson home. And they knew she was a fool and Mr.Ruff was a coward how come they did not call the police as when they knew the history of the Mr. Ruff and the girlfriens.
My my my what big fish is the family trying to fry?
People from the neighborhood stated to the police �after hearing the loud gun shots I saw men fleeing from the house and they all jump in to a car and drove off� not once did and any state they saw a woman flee from the house.
Review the information that was given to the public (hummmm makes you think someone was not really there).
Wow, only the cops will determine, how about that. So sorry again for your loss!
Your a joke!!!!! the police never made any statements of a gun found in the home of Athony Melson.
Get your facts correct. Wrong is wrong He went to Anthonys home with intent to do wrong with a gun at another person home.
When you take a gun out of your own home and go clear to the other side of town to another person home with your own gun . . . . Vanessa and Mr. Ruff and the others who were there at the time of the shooting (hummmmmmmm) this was a plot and plan by Vanessa and her family. If Mr. Ruff did not mean to shoot or kill Mr. Melson then why would Vanessa and Mr. Ruff leave after he shot under the side window of the door. Why didn't they stay until the police got there? Your family didn't love Mr. Melson I see hate and set up for death. Sorry has no place for murder in any form. They both ran after the shotting and did not come forth for a few days which means they had time to get their lie together before he turned his self in.
Vanessa got her a fool to help her do her dirty work. She does know how to pick them.
I was cut off for some apparent reason or accidently kicked off. Again why would Kris fire if it didn't look like Ant was pulling something so Kris was more than likely protecting him self, he is not a fucking killer (excuse my language) people out here now a days have to protect themselves and it's fucked up that it has to be like this I mean only GOD knows what really happened not the law cause they don't really want to hear the real Truth I say, they want NIGGA'a to kill one another and get it over with 4 real. I don't mean to say it like that but this is the only way I can express how I feel about certain situations. Didn't know Ant but Knew Kris Like 4 real, He's a father, wife, family man and knows how to make everyone smile if something is wrong here comes KRIS, that's always gone be my NIGGA FOR LIFE, I mean every NIGGA'S For Life. I mean he had to protect him and her in case Ant was trying to do something to them if that was the case, makes sense, YES!!!!!!!!!!!! Only like the person that was there knows but aint gone talk like was said. This man gone spend time in jail for some shit that ya'LL aint investigating thourogh enough seeing all this stuff is being blogged is fucked up to me. Ya'll probably gone put this shit together and get with everybody which is fine with me even though I don't know really what's going on except for what people are saying and that's actually what's fucked up cause for real there probably aint really enough evidence. One more thing People learn how to spell!! You can make one or two mistakes but in every sentence or paragraph, no!!!!!
Kris I love You and don't give up hope because Your one Sis n Law still Loves you and hopefully you will win, I know you would'nt have done such thing.....
Take Care,
Your Sis N Law For Life!!!!!!!!!
if someone blocks their door to their home and wont let you in their home. .. . . . this is a sign that your not welcome.
There was no place for conversation or a fight when Vanessa and Mr Ruff could not get in the home. Vanessa should have left with her family right then.
People always go get the family members who will act a fool behind them or for them when they need dirty sh*# done for them.
who are you to shot someone because they don't want you in their home.
Vanessa was a girlfriend not his wife. If someone tells you go away from there home; (hummmmmmm) what is so hard to understand. It was his home not not the Vanessa or Mr. Ruff. Right Vanessa had moved out and only wanted a few things that she had left. Stuff she could had lived with out and replaced.
Mr. Ruff will get out of jail less then 10 years and Vanessa may or may not go to jail for this plot. They both still get to see their children and family.
However they both get to grow old and see their children and grand children and other family members. How wonderful is that for them both.
Mr. Melson will never see his children get married.
Think about the life time Vanessa and Mr. Ruff has taken from each family. And how no one will ever get back what has been lost.
Funny how things are comming about on this page. What happen to the other family members that lived in the home?
What happend friday night in 6902 Night club with Anthony and his girlfriend?
Think about it . . . . The two of them spent the whole week fighing. On the 16 of August 2009 the whole thing was a set up her and her family.
People only bring guns out when they plan to use them.
The Mother of Kris Ruff would like to say I am very sorry for what happen and my heart goes out to the Family. I hope you can appect my forgivness. May God be with you all.
To ever that was talking bad about the Ruff Family we are very sorry what happen to Anthony but we was not there and we are not a bad Family we love Anthony as if he was one of are own family but it not my bother that Anthony had words with it was someone else but the person seen Ant when he grab something and that when he shot through the window not been able to see Anthony he didn't know he hit him until they seen it on the news my Brother have never been in any type of trouble and was not looking to get in any kind of trouble he have a family to rise just like everyone else so please if you don't kinow what happen don't speak on it and the incident with Vanessa and Anthony happpened on that sat not friday and she was not trying to get him killed just wanted to some stuff for her kid's could go to school the next day like she said she loved Anthony and most likely went back to him after she was going for a little bit and the incident that happen at thye club herv sister was there and didn't get involed because this is something they always do and get back together so no one wanted to any one hurt not even killed. may God easy your heart a little bit but we are really sorry for the way thing truned out.and some of are in church we are normal as other family and do have a heart hope that one day this will all end.
We are very sorry for what happened to Ant but please seat here and say that Ruff Family is all bad because there are some of that know the Lord and is in church yes this was a bad thying to happen but this not what Kris went for Vanessa called and said that she wanted him to come with her to get her things because Ant had jumped on her the day before not that friday so when they got there he had something on the door and it was Kris that he had words with but someone seen Ant grab something and that's when Kris Shot through the window not knowing that he shot until it came on the news so they asked Vanessa to go and let the police now what happened and yes they did find a gun in the present ofb Ant but this was suppose to happen and we do want to say we are very sorry Ant was just like a family member so we do hurt to and so do Kris like he said this was not suppose to have happen ann no the Ruff are not all bad we are just a family just like everyone else and yes they asked Vaneesa to call the police before it got to where it ended up at she dail but didn't send we are so sorry about this incident trust and belive Kris have never been involed in anything like this.