Wyandotte County prosecutors charged Deborah Meeks Wednesday with first-degree murder in the death of Wesley U. Smith.
Smith, 53, died Monday of a gunshot wound to the chest. His body was found in a home in the 2900 block of Hutchings Street.
Meeks, 47, is being held in the Wyandotte County jail on $100,000 bond.
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So if its not yo business y u writing anything.....and apparently u don't kno the bible cause u can repent for up sins and get yo life right wit god dumb ass..if ppl instantly or sent to hell for they sins we all be banished to hell when we die....but I guess u would have to kno god to kno anything about that....
how about none of yall kno wat the hell yall talkin about...i lived wit them not yall them is my parents so unless yall lived n me and my sisters shoes yall aint got shit to say.......yall aint been there all 20 yrs so wat do yall really kno.....and the funny thing is all yall soooo fuckin bold to say all this shit towards my mama and daddy but not that damn bold to put who wrote it....yall jus as weak as the comments before yall......anyways if yall got some more slick talkin to do regarding either one of my parents yall kno where i stay....well if yall was his real friends then yall kno where i stay
THIS MESSAGE IS IN RESPONSE TO COMMENTS REGARDING DEBORAH MEEKS AND WESLEY SMITH. THINGS HAVE BEEN SAID ABOUT WESLEY AND HOW HE WAS SUCH A GREAT MAN. NOW I DID NOT KNOW HIM PERSONALLY BUT I DO KNOW THE FACE OF (ABUSE). I SAY FACE BECAUSE (ABUSE HAS IT'S OWN PERSONALITY). WESLEY KNEW THAT FACE VERY WELL BECAUSE IT WAS A PART OF WHO HE WAS. HE WAS THE (WOLF, THE MONSTER OF DECEPTION IN SHEEPS CLOTHING). HE WORE THE PERSONNA OF GOOD (GOOD GUY) LIKE A GLOVE. HE WAS KNOWN FOR GIVING PEOPLE MONEY AND DOING GOOD THINGS TO HELP OTHERS. HE WAS THE (ABUSER THAT EVERYBODY LOVED). I SPEAK AS ONE WHO HAS BEEN (ABUSED) AND I KNOW THEM WELL. SOME WILL SAY THAT WHAT I'M ABOUT TO SAY IS HEARSAY BUT THE REALITY IS THAT IT IS TRUE. DEBORAH WAS DEATHLY AFRAID OF WESLEY BECAUSE OF THE TERRIBLE THINGS THAT HE DID TO HER AND MEMBERS OF HER FAMILY. WHEN TH POLICE WAS CALLED SHE WAS TOLD THAT THERE WAS NOTHING THEY COULD DO UNLESS HE DID SOMETHING THAT COULD BE PROVEN. BUT LIKE ALL (ABUSERS) HE KNEW HOW TO HIDE HIS TRACKS. THEN HE WOULD CALL THEM AFTER THE DEED WAS DONE SOMETIMES BEFORE AND BRAG ABOUT WHAT HE HAD DONE OR THAT HE WAS GOING TO DO SOMETHING. WESLEY WAS A SHREWD AND CUNNING PERSON, ALWAYS PLANNING HIS NEXT MOVE, ALWAYS WITH GREAT INTENTION AND NEED TO STAY AHEAD OF THE GAME SO THAT HE WOULD BE THE ONE TO GET THE LAST LAUGH. EVERY TIME DEBORAH WOULD ATTEMPT TO TRY AND HAVE A LIFE OF HER OWN HE THE (ABUSER) WAS ALWAYS THERE TO BLOCK WHAT EVER SHE WANTED TO DO. ALWAYS QUESTIONING WHERE SHE WAS AND WHAT SHE WAS DOING. HE WAS THE CONTROLLER FROM (HELL) AND SHE HAD NO WHERE TO TURN. SHE COULD NOT GET HELP FROM THE POLICE AND SHE DARE NOT ASK FAMILY BECAUSE OF WHAT HE HAD DID IN THE PAST. SWOMEONE MIGHT SAY IS HE STILL DOING THINGS TO THE FAMILY (NO) WHY? BECAUSE HE HAD ALREADY ACCOMPLISHED HIS GOAL TO PUT (OVERWHELMING FEAR IN HER) AND THEREFORE HE HAS WHAT HE WANTED (CONTROL, LET ME SAY THIS AGAIN (CONTROL). THE DAY FIINALLY CAME WHEN THERE WAS (ONE MORE SMALL CRACK) AND THE (DAM BURST) WITH OVERWHELMING DEVASTATION. ALL THE YEARS OF WEAR AND TEAR ON THE (MIND) TOOK ITS TOLL. LIKE A DAM WHEN YEARS OF WEAR AND TARE AND PUSHING AND FORCING HAS ERODED ITS VERY FOUNDATION THEN THE NEXT LITTLE CRACK IS ALL THAT IT TAKES, THEN A (DUNAMUS = EXPLOSION) TAKES PLACE. THERE ARE NO OPTIONS BECAUSE IF THE WATER CAN'T DOESN'T HAVE A RELEASE POINT THEN IT HAS NO OTHER OPTION, EVEN SCIENCE SAYS IT WILL BURST. WHEN THERE IS NO RELEASE FOR THE MIND, WHEN THERE IS NO WHERE TO RUN OR GET REST THERE WILL BE AN OVERFLOWING OF ALL THAT YOU ARE AND WHO YOU ARE FOR A (MOMENT) UNTIL ALL IS AT REST AND SOME KIND OF NORMALITY CAN TAKE PLACE. THERE IS BUT ONE QUESTION IN MY MIND OR MAYBE I SHOULD SAY ONE OBSERVATION. (WHT DID WESLEY PURCHASE THAT GUN)? DID HE NOT KNOW THAT THE DAM WOULD EVENTUALLY BREAK? AND Why DID HE GET A RESTRAINING ORDER AGAINST HER?) WHEN HE WAS THE PERPETRATOR AND (DID HE FINALLY HAVE THE ULTIMATE (CONTROL)? (DID HE GET THE LAST AFTERALL?. SOME OF YOU HAVE SAID SHE DIDN'T HAVE TO SHOOT HIM. THIS COULD BE TRUE IN MAYBE SOME OTHER SITUATION, BUT (WHERE) WOULD (YOU) GO WHEN YOU'VE BEEN LAUGHED AT AND TOLD BY YOUR (ABUSER) YOU HAVE NO WHEWRE TO GO AND NO ONE TO GO TOO. SOMEONE SAID WESLEY WAS IN HEAVEN (I BEG TO DIFFER) WHO AM I? I AM AN OUTSIDER LOOKING IN,WHO WAS ABLE TO RUN YOU SEE I WOULD HAVE TAKEN TWO LIVES AND THE SECOND ONE WOULD NOT HAVE BEEN MINE BUT BY GODS' GRACE I MADE IT OUT. WHAT IF THIS WERE YOU? ITS EASY TO ANSWER WHEN YOU DON'T WALK IN THEIR SHOES. SOMEONE ELSE SAID HE WAS (EVIL) INDEED HE WAS. BECAUSE HE HAS TRIED TO DESTROY HER LIFE (HOLD ON DEBORAH, I TRUST GOD THAT HE WILL SOMEHOW BRING YOU OUT. SOMEONE WHO CARES:.
March 25, 2010.
My heart goes out to the families. As I was reading the comment I felt the anger, bitterness in the peoples comments. I have known Debbie for many many years. She is a loving, friendly and caring person. I'm sorry that you women are so angry at her, but please forgive her, because I know Debbie is very sorry that it happen. It could happen with you or me. Stay prayed up, get to know your inner self and when ungodly thoughts enter your mind. Pray. Get out of the situation, Satan slicker than two edged sword. Debbie I miss your smiling face and you passing by the house and you see me outside you stop and say something funny that put a smile on my face.
Wow!! All of this is crazy to be real about it. For one she did not mean to kill wesley they were both in the midst of arguing and it happened. She did not shoot him in the chest, she shot him in between his shoulder which hit a main arterie and he bled to death. The girls i know personally they were there when it happened and i have talked to them both! He may have had problems but he did take care of his daughters.
All this back and forth is crazy. A man lost his life behind what is possibly a silly argument, that I'm sure Deborah wishes she could take back right now. I have met her and have talked to her and on occassion and she was nice woman, but she did seem to be a little bothered by something. She rarely smiled and I am sure that there is some truth to her being in an unhealthy relationship. How many of us have been in an unhealthy relationship, but continued to stay. Almost every woman I know has experienced one, and it was by the grace of God that it didn't end up in a tragedy. I feel for both families, but what's most promising is that Deborah is still alive and has an oportunity to make it right with Jesus Christ, and make amends for her wrong, that is unfortunately not the case for the man she killed. He doesn't have that opportunity to make it right with his maker. That is what's most frightening. When we die, we IMMEDIATELY go to heaven or hell. And while God is the final judge, my bible tells me that you can't die in sin and rise a saint, the way you die is the way you will rise. If you are living in sin and you die that way, you are NOT in heaven. People read your word. This should be a wake up call to all of us who are yet in the land of the living, to make our life right and serve the one who died for you!
All I can say is that she is going to need a VERY GOOD LAWYER. But she is going to do BIG TIME FOR THAT. NOT TO MENTION WHEN SHE GOES UP TO MEET HER MAKER.
Lets all rember, you dont know what you would do in a fit if anger! God is the judge ofthis sittuationt! Please be praying for the family;s of both people involved, especially the children. God be with Debbie and her family! Most women of domestic violence, sometimes do drastic, things, because they ar victomized!
If ur getin ur ass whiped and ur to fukin stupid to stay away and so scared why she at his house I'm scared of dogs so I'm not gonna chill at the dog kennel where they at daaaaa and on top of that she left to get the strap and went back come on that's not bein scared for ur life that's 1st degree murder she had to much time to call the po pos it's not like she shoot him in the mist of getin a ass whoopin but it is what it is all that time readin gods book and didn't learn a damn thang all that time wasted just to go to hell damn If it was a man theyed allready my on death row so to end it all smith fam keep ur heads up.
I knew Wesley personally myself as well, and he was a good man. I'm not understanding if Wes was this EVIL person as yal claim, then why would Deb be out in the club or even around someone who was supposedly abusive, controlling and scared for her life. It just doesn't make sense. As mentioned above, the real victims are the girls, My thoughts and prayers goes out to them. Wesley is in heaven now and he could not had said it any better, He is flying above all you HATERS.... R.I.P. my friend, you're gone and they still can't seem to quit talking about you...Now that's when you know your special...lol.. You are truly being missed my friend...
I agree with you, he was a psycho, she was terrified of this man, when you fear for your life, your pretty much going to do whatever it takes to live, think if you were in the situation, you would want to protect yourself, and your family. So unless you know what really went down, you need not to comment. (He must've paid yall to say good things about him, once he died. Cause that's the type of person he was.)
he has all yal fooled that man was insane he put that woman and every woman he was wit threw pure hell he was abusive and controlling and he didnt take good care of thm girls like yal claimed i know him personally yal jus outsiders lookin in so gone wit that he was a good man old sob ass story he was a cheap selfish hateful ass man that got away wit alot cause he had the money to pay his way out of shit and he wasnt her support system bitch he had her scared for her life for dam near 20yrs so if u dont know wat u talking bout shut keep yo comments to yo damn self and his funeral was today
If anyone knows when Wesley funeral is please post the information or email me at loveya_two@yahoo.com. Also, I would like to add that Wesley was a great man and father! Who took care of his girls, and he was the type of man who would do anything for anyone. This was a senseless act that never should have happen. Wesley is with the angels now! My thoughts and prayers goes out to the family. R.I.P MY Friend, I�m sure gone miss you (Big head)!
RIP to my friend to the end, he was not a evil person. He just loved women and he loved taken care of the women he loved. I know he took care of me at one time. It wouldn't have to be a specail occassion for him to by me flowers they were not just any flowers the would be roses. He would also by stuff animals these are some of the things he would do just because. He was a good man and great Dad. Rip my good friend, I am going to miss ur silly grin and funny jokes. LIFE IS TO SHORT IF U FEAR SOMEONE LEAVE THEM ALONG & STOP USING THEM FOR SUPPORT.
No one has the right to take anyones life, SHE WAS AT HIS HOUSE! If u are scared of a person why would u keep going to this persons house. The kids are old enough to call or come to u. The real vics in all of this is there girls. All of the drama, abuse & final death that played out in front of these girls which have a big impact on them for the rest of there lives. I will be praying for all of them, including Deborah. RIP Wes, only GOD can judge u now While Deborah will be judged by 13. Whatever she gets she will still be able to see her kids, WES WILL NOT.
less not forget the time the meeks family members blew up Wes female friend car. U cant say he was stalking her when she was calling and coming to him just as much as he called her. Deborah was not that innicent she was just at a club with Wes about a month ago & im not the only one who saw them in MO at the club togeather. If u fear someone u don't call them all the time for money. He spoiled her and she let him,
It is understandable why she is being charged with 1st D M. Even though she claimed 2 be abused by Wes she did not have the right to take his life. She could have had one of the girls call the police. She should have stopped receiving money and gifts from Wes such as the car she drove brought and paid for by Wes. She didn't keep a job because she know nomatter what Wes was going to take care of her. WHY DID SHE EVEN HAVE A GUN ON HER THAT DAY AT HIS HOUSE. IF SHE SO SCARED HE WAS GOING TO DO SOMETHING SHE SHOULD NOT HAVE GONE IN HIS HOUSE. SHE WAS ON ALL HIS LIFE INSURANCE POLICYS. I know Wes told me this many times
Someone please out money towards getting her out of jail, this woman is a great person in a bad relationship, I promise. Please just help her and the family. This man was NO GOOD, HE WAS A STALKER,EVIL,and even shot our family member's house, caught it on fire, and caught the truck on fire. He deserved consequences, NOT saying it's good but she didn't have a life....... HELP HElp HELP, and u will be BLESSED,PROMISE
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